You did 7 days. Now do the year.
The 40-Week Xperience — a full year of intentional intimacy for couples. Ten themes. Forty unhurried weekly evenings, fifteen to thirty minutes each. One deliberate year.
$97 · one-time purchase · lifetime access · instant download
Intimacy isn't broken. It's buried under busy.
Most couples don't lose intimacy because they stop wanting it. They lose it because life gets fast — and intimacy is the first thing speed eats. The evenings fill up. The attention splinters. Two people can share a bed, a mortgage, and a Netflix account and still not have really looked at each other in weeks.
You've felt what one deliberate week (or one deliberate month) can do. This is what happens when you give it a year: one protected evening a week, each one planned for you, each month building quietly on the last. No performance. No pressure. Just the two of you, on purpose, forty times.
One evening a week. That's the whole ask.
Every week follows the same simple shape — the one you already know:
The Activity
A complete, unhurried evening — planned for you, 15–30 minutes. Neither of you has to be the one who asks.
Why It Matters
The quiet reason each evening works — so it never feels like a random date-night idea.
The Conversation
One honest prompt per evening — the questions that restart what busy switched off.
Ten themes, each a month long, each building on the last
- Presence — the art of being unhurried together
- Communication — the things you haven't said out loud yet
- Sensory — feeling more with the same person
- Playfulness — lightness as an intimacy tool
- Anticipation — desire as a daily practice
- Exploration — one new element, every week
- Depth — where emotional and physical intimacy meet
- Trust — deepening safety, expanding comfort
- Ritual — the small things that compound
- Celebration — honouring the year you built
Everything inside
- All 40 weekly evenings — complete activities, never filler
- 10 monthly theme introductions with an optional "new element" for each month
- Monthly reflections that turn the year into your story
- The Distance Edition — every theme adapted for couples apart
- The Anniversary Ritual — a guided evening in five movements for milestone moments
- 20 printable Spark Cards — the full bedside deck for the nights in between
- Beautifully designed 62-page PDF — yours forever, no subscription
This is for you if
- You love each other and like each other — busy just ate the evenings
- You want structure without scripts, depth without performance
- You'd rather invest one evening a week than wonder where the year went
It's not for you if
- You're looking for a quick fix — this works because it's a year, not a weekend
- Your relationship is in crisis — a good therapist comes first, this comes after
- You want something explicit — this is intimate, never crude
The honest math
One dinner-and-a-babysitter date night costs more than this entire year. The 40-Week Xperience is $97, once — about $1.86 per week for fifty-two weeks of evenings that count. No subscription. No upsells inside. Lifetime access, including any future updates.
Because it's an instant digital download, all sales are final — which is exactly why we gave you a full week free first. You already know how this works. The year is just forty more of them.
Questions couples ask
How much time does this really take? One evening a week, 15–30 minutes. The other twelve weeks of the year are deliberately left free for holidays and messy stretches — missing a week breaks nothing.
Do we need to buy anything else? No. Every evening works with what you already own. Some months suggest an optional "new element" — always optional, never required.
Is it explicit? No. It's intimate, warm, and grown-up — but never crude. The depth comes from attention, not explicitness.
What if we're long-distance some or all of the year? The Distance Edition adapts every theme for couples apart — it's included.
What do we get, exactly? A beautifully designed 62-page PDF, delivered instantly to your inbox and downloadable forever. Your billing appears discreetly.
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